How to do it: Have him lie on his back. Climb on top, with one leg on either side of his torso. It’s usually better to focus more on rocking your body back and forth, rather than trying to bob up and down. You can also try grinding your pelvis in slow circles or in a figure-eight motion.
Why it works: Being on top is the most popular position for a lot of women because it gives them complete control over the pace, angle, depth, and level of stimulation. There are a ton of fun variations of this position, making it very versatile. It’s not one of the more intense positions for men, so your partner may be able to last a lot longer than usual, giving you more time to reach your peak.
